Hello faithful user of [SERVICE]! Did you know that people who switched from [COMPANY A] saved an average of [DOLLARS] by switching their [SERVICE] to [COMPANY B]?
It’s true! And there’s more! We will treat you like family. Sure it will be like cheaply bought and rather expendable family, but at least you will save [DOLLARS] on [SERVICE]!
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Have you ever noticed that every company will save you some intermediate amount of money per year if you switch. Though that is not what they actually state, it sound like it, but the offer is much different. All of the ads that follow the above format seem to be able to save you big bucks for a simple phone call. There is a trick in the language though… “People who switched,” is the specific statement they make.
Now, I ask you this. Have you ever decided to switch to a more expensive service?
You may actually have at some point. The odds are low that this is your goal in life though. The American dream doesn’t often embrace the “how much more could I pay for an equitable service” idea. Almost every time any person is switching companies they are either A.) Moving, or B.) have found a better price.
Now that we have that straight, can we go back to commercials that at least attempt to pander to us because the cute mascot or lack thereof is appealing rather than some conjuration of meaningless numbers.
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September 24th, 2009 in
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Spinsterella, at Don’t Catch It Up, asked an interesting question in her latest post. That question, specifically, is: what is wholeness or what does it mean to be whole?
A more intrinsic part of this question is how do we be whole and broken at the same time. It may seem a paradox, but over time I have found that it is certainly not. A few things that have helped me arrive at the answer below have been reading Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (I have read this particular gem three times and have a fourth reading planned), Stranger in a Strange Land, and practicing yoga with my friends and a number of good talk that have followed our weekend sessions.
The most simple answer is this… At this moment we are just as we should be. This may be the most important part of wholeness. We may be able , may even need, to improve but at this moment where are where we should be. It is that acceptance of the self that creates wholeness in my mind. Every fault, break, and problem is accepted because they are a part of every way in which we are a positive and growing being.
A great deal of literature deals with healing. I think healing from the breaks in our life is important, but I also feel we have focused to much on healing. I like to think of psychological healing in much the same way as a broken arm. Once a bone breaks, there is very little you can do about it. In most cases you should probably see a doctor to get some professional help. Even after that though, in everyday life there is not a whole lot you can do. You can avoid anything that will hurt the arm more, keep it safe, and follow doctor’s orders. However, staring at the cast will not speed up the knitting of bone. Personal problems don’t get better under intense scrutiny either. Big problems may need some guidance from a psychologist or therapist but beyond that the best way to heal is to go on living and let the healing take place in its own time and way. Once again I believe this related back into the idea of wholeness above.
At least one commenter on the post from Spinsterella spoke of “surrendering to a higher power.” I prefer to avoid higher powers myself, but there is a great deal of power in this. Some give themselves to God, I give myself to Yoga… Trust me, the parallel will be clear soon.
A big part of yoga is to stop focusing on the conscious self. Becoming one with your breath is not an attempt to get deeper inside ourselves but to free ourselves from thought and become one with something external. It is a gradual elimination of the ego. It is also an elimination of thought. If you picture the brain as a muscle this makes more sense. If you constantly use a muscle it becomes tired, sore, and not very good at doing what it needs to. If we let go of the ego, let go of the constant thoughts about who we are, how we are right now, how we could be better, and all the questions about why we may not be better we take a great deal of tension of that muscle. Then when we need to really apply our ability to reason we have a fresh muscle that produces clear thoughts.
This is the same process in accepting a higher power. We give up our ego to something above us. We accept how we are and that we are as we should be in the eyes of a creator.
All that said, how whole am I? Good question. Some days I am much more at one with myself and accepting of what my wholeness embodies. Other days I could be said to be a fair wreck. I feel that I am getting closer to personal wholeness because even on bad days I am more able to say “and this is where I am today,” without being nearly as critical as I formerly was.
So, focus less on being broken, focus less on being whole, focus less on healing. You are where you are today, you are where you are in this moment. Let the wholeness of that acceptance fill you, and let yourself be empty for it.
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Sometimes the fact that reading is fun comes naturally. That is how it is for me in most cases. I like reading, hell, I love reading! However, I have recently rediscovered it as a full time occupation due to an extraordinary set of events.
First, the home TV is busted. It has been that way for a couple of weeks now, and it will persist in such a state for most likely another week while we wait for the repair company to receive the proper parts. Along with that I recently attempted to upgrade some RAM in my PC, this resulted in a coincidental death of a memory slot on the motherboard.
I have since ordered a new motherboard (A nice Gigabyte) and have subsequently RMA’d it. Yep, an RMA on the new board. It was simply a bad one (the first non-working item i have received from NewEgg). From the get go it never once posted to BIOS. The old motherboard does work – minus some memory – but the effort to get everything back together just to take it apart again is beyond my patience, especially when i have a laptop.
How does this create professional reading? Because with no TV and no PC games of any sort, I have a great deal of time on my hands. I also have the motivation of starting a Clinical Psychology Ph.D. program next week, so quite a bit of refresher work is being done. It would have been hard for me to imagine a couple of years ago that it was possible to forget some of the basics of classical conditioning, but when you travel abroad and across the country for a couple of years doing anything and everything that does not involve your degree, things have a way of slipping out of mind.
Luckily, relearning is much easier. I have found the amazing ability to get through one hundred of more pages of text books in a day with almost total comprehension. This should encourage all of you to start rereading things you learned in the past, the feeling of brilliance is a nice perk!
Who knows… I may even get some real updates ready for Sustainable Democracy… Reading “Stranger in a Strange Land” has certainly given me ample material to think broadly about. That and the complete lack of news I get is rather refreshing.
So kids, do like Uncle Chris, read more, watch less, make your friends suspect communism may be rearing its ugly head again.
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August 28th, 2009 in
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Some recent MMORPG developments have stirred the pot about what it means to be greedy, the moral rightness of different payment or transaction models, and what, in general, players should be willing to accept.
While reading through some of the debates, I came across an article that covers very little of that first rather complex sentence but goes very deep into the topics of copyright, intellectual property, micro transactions, and how they do or do not apply in the real world; especially the internet.
Raph Koster’s: "Are microtransactions actually the future?"
I won’t attempt to summarize his views here. Let it just be said that this is one of the longest and most informative pieces I have seen on the topic.
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August 5th, 2009 in
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Technology | tags:
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Internet,
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Well, the economic crisis seems to have gone from a stable state of rapid decline to a rollercoaster of small turns to the positive followed by sudden bouts of tragedy. It seems that the best choice from ‘08 may very well have been the great Cthulhu (Why vote for the lesser of two evils?).
Perhaps instead of “hope” and “change” we should have had the motto of simply “Despair.” If nothing else it would have been accurate advertising in politics. But then, we don’t vote for accuracy, we vote for the most appealing lie. In fact, things have gotten so bad that even CNBC is slowing down on their predictions that sunshine and puppies are in the near future. This is supplemented by the fact that the majority of their outside experts are looking more grim each day and have been recommending more short sells rather than investments.
However, the Hitchhiker’s Guide may still have the best advice.
Don’t Panic
Things have to get better right? Less a question, and more a fact. Things at some point will get better. We just need to hope that the place of improvement is somewhere before the absolute bottom.
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July 13th, 2009 in
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